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I feel like my life has fallen apart…?

Question by Jeweled Citrus: I feel like my life has fallen apart…?
This might be long, so bear with me. I lost my job back in February. I got fired, because I wasn’t doing my job well. I’ve worked two temporary jobs since then, and one part time job that I ended up quitting because it wasn’t working out. I got laid off from my second temporary job this past Saturday, due to the fact that the company wasn’t meeting their sales goals. I feel horrible about this, because this is the first job I’ve had in about seven years that I actually enjoyed.
As I stated earlier, I lost my last full time job in February. I met my current boyfriend in March. He met me knowing fully well I was unemployed. By June, it just happened to work out that he needed a new place to live and I needed help with my bills, so he moved in. We both agreed that it was far too early for us to move in together, but it was kind of the “right” (I use right for lack of a better word) time as we were both in need. By July I had gone through my savings and couldn’t afford to pay rent or electricity anymore. He agreed to pay both (it comes out to about 0 a month – he makes 00 a month, and has no bills other than rent/electricity – his mom pays for his cell phone and his car insurance). I basically ended up being his maid. I do his laundry, clean the apartment, wash the dishes, pick up after him, give him massages, and oral sex most times he asks. How can I say no to the person who’s paying the rent/electricity?
Back in July, we ended up taking in one of his mom’s dogs, his brother and his brother’s girlfriend for a week. The dog was a huge problem because first of all we’re not allowed to have dogs in our building (luckily the landlord never shows so he never knew), and secondly the dog is the spawn of Satan – I’m not kidding. I like dogs, but I HATED this dog. He growled at me, tried to bite me (and everyone else), refused to be disciplined, etc. I was so happy when that week was over and the dog, his brother, and his brother’s girlfriend were gone. Again, I had to say yes – how can I tell the person paying the bills no?
Fast forward a few months. In October, his brother decided to drop out of college. Again, he came to stay with us for a week – except he ended up breaking up with his girlfriend, and so he has been here ever since. Neither of us has a job (except the month I had a temporary job), which is not to say that we aren’t looking, but the job market sucks, as I’m sure you’re all aware. We’ve had numerous issues with his brother, including him having a drug problem (spent a week in rehab for that, has been sober ever since – at least that we’re aware of), he stole from me (said he did it when he was on drugs, hasn’t stolen anything else since). He’s a good kid and wicked smart (already in his junior year of college at 19), but he’s made more than his fair share of mistakes. But he is improving.
Now that I’ve explained the situation, let me try to unravel the tangle of emotions I feel. First of all, I feel that I am being taken advantage of. I couldn’t say no to my boyfriend’s brother moving in, but our apartment isn’t made for three people – it’s barely big enough for two. Everyone uses my things, doesn’t pick up after themselves, things are getting broken, they both drop food and spill drinks on the carpet, and I just feel generally disrespected. But I also realize that my boyfriend feels rather disrespected because he views us as, well, dead weight. I feel like he doesn’t understand that we’re trying but can’t find jobs, and that we try to keep him happy. One day he’ll be reasonable about things and then the next he’s complaining about how I can’t pay my half of the bills. For example, when I got my paycheck from my temporary job, I explained to him that I could either pay my bills or pay my half of the rent, not both. He said I could pay my bills, and he was fine with it. But today he got so pissed off because I couldn’t pay him. This is what drives me nuts. One day he says one thing, and the next he says something totally different. As a result, I usually don’t listen to most things he says because I know by the next day he’ll change his mind. I’ve tried talking to him about how he needs to make up his mind, or think before he speaks. It hasn’t helped.
I feel like my whole life has fallen apart. I feel so useless, like a complete waste of space. I’ve watched everything I’ve worked for go down the drain. I have no savings. My credit card is maxed out. I don’t even want to know what my credit score has dropped down to (it used to be 762 – I was so proud of it!). My goal was to have a house and my own car by the time I was 25. That was over a year ago. I want to travel the world. I feel like all my dreams are a waste because now they’ll never come true.
All things considered, I’ve been rather optimistic about things. I try to look on the bright side but sometimes it’s just so hard, especially when my boyfriend is mad at me for something I can’t control (i.e. the job market). It also doesn’t h
Apparently it cut me off…let me finish… It also doesn’t help matters that not only do we live in the state that has one of the highest unemployment rates, but we live in the region that has been hit the worst throughout the entire state. I haven’t been to college, but I would like to go. I realize now that I need to have at least a little bit of school under my belt.
Things feel so hopeless. I’m sad to admit that I have considered suicide. I’m pretty sure I could never go through with it, first of all because I’m too chicken. Secondly, I think of all the things I think of all the things I would miss. I would never get my own house, my own car, I would never get to travel, and I would never get to see my niece and nephew grow up. In short, I want to know how the story ends – it had better damn well not end with me taking a razor to my wrists. I don’t know where to go for help. I want my life back. Does anyone have any advice? Where I can go, who I can talk to, etc.?

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Answer by veritas85
You need to tell your boyfriend that being in a relationship is all about give and take. Right now he’s giving and your taking and that’s fine. You’ll be able to give and he’ll be able to take one day. That’s how relationships survive.Understanding it and accepting it. Let him know that letting others into your apartment for a while when help is needed is ok but it can’t be permanent and that they need to respect your home and not be a slob.

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He venido a Carolina del Norte a principios de agosto desde Florida a vivir con mi t?a, mientras que yo tengo mis finanzas en orden y se ha recuperado de su cirug?a de la espalda. Pienso quedarme aqu? hasta que “un poco despu?s del a?o nuevo. Cuando me mud?, me las arregl? para que mi correo reenviado mientras estoy aqu?. Tambi?n en este per?odo, comenc? a buscar un proveedor de seguros de nuevo, ?por qu?? mi tasa hab?a subido con Geico. Decid? progresiva. Al firmar para el Progreso, que firm? con mi n?mero de licencia de los conductores de la Florida y mi nc nueva direcci?n. Un par de meses m?s tarde recib? una carta del Estado de la Florida, diciendo que ellos fueron notificados Geico es mi p?liza de seguro? sido cancelado y para proporcionar una cobertura de la prueba nueva. Me fui en l?nea y proporcionaron la informaci?n, pero al parecer cometi? un error cuando se selecciona el nombre de la compa??a de seguros. Accidentalmente selecciona compa??a de seguros para la protecci?n, en vez de progresivo. Yo era consciente de este error, cuando recib? una carta de suspensi?n de la licencia de ayer. Desde entonces, he notificado al estado de la Florida el fracaso. Luego me enter? que mi seguro no era aceptable porque? De la Florida requiere que si tengo una grabaci?n de la Florida, tengo una pol?tica de la Florida. Llam? a mi seguro, que confirm? que a pesar de que ofrece cobertura en la Florida, estaba bajo una pol?tica de Carolina del Norte a pesar de que les proporcion? el n?mero de licencia de conducir de Florida por qu?? mi direcci?n postal? Actualmente, nc. No he tenido ninguna interrupci?n en la cobertura, pero mi compa??a de seguros no pueden? regresar a la Florida hasta que yo estoy viviendo ah??, y Que el nuevo a?o? proporcionar una direcci?n v?lida donde van a vivir. No s? d?nde estar?? porque incluso cuando voy a vivir? tendr?? encontrar un nuevo lugar para moverse. ?Alguien tiene alg?n consejo sobre qu? hacer en esta situaci?n? Cuando me mud? a Florida, y trasladado mi etiqueta, yo? costar? cerca de $ 500, as? que si usted se mud? a Carolina del Norte, por el momento, voy a tener? y luego pagar $ 500, una vez que llegue la respuesta FLMiglior: Respuesta

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Whats the cheapest car insurance?

Question by tpmike2004: Whats the cheapest car insurance?

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Answer by Jennifer
we have usaa they were the cheapest for us.

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Can someone inform me of apartment renting information?

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Question by : Can someone inform me of apartment renting information?
Hi, I’m getting rather upset that I cannot find information that I need, in order to move out. I’ve never been on my own before. I’m eighteen years of age, and my boyfriend is living with me under my mothers house. We’re both on the SSI deal, but that’s only temporary for the both of us, until we can get a stable place to live. I have recently received m high school diploma. I then later, have plans to go into the medical field. That’s our source of income for now (My boyfriend also does computer repairs for some good money, but it’s not a business) I cannot find anything that would give me a good, general idea of what apartment rent would be like. My interest lies in York, Pennsylvania. However, I can’t find any good information about their costs or anything. Some experienced help would be greatly appreciated. I get six hundred and seventy four dollars every month, with an additional twenty two dollars and ten cents. He gets ninety seven dollars every two weeks, with additional money he does with computer repairs. I have a 2003 car (higher insurance because it’s a little newer) and because I’m eighteen years of age (also a reason for me to pay higher insurance) I pay about a hundred dollars each month for car insurance. So does anyone have any suggestions to me?

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Answer by Ava Morelli
Go on Craigslist and look at the price of rents in the city you want to move to.

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CSF o la integridad Typr R?

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Suggestions for a first car?

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I’m 16 years old, and going to have my licence in a few months
I’ve done a little research but know little about cars and their value.
My budget at the time should be about 11, 000$ CAD, and my parents might pitch in a couple grands as well.
I’m looking for a car, somewhat nice, that i could keep for a good amount of time. Keep in mind that i also need to pay for insurance and fuel.
What do you guys suggest?

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Answer by savage72
A 2006 or newer body style monte carlo. you can usually find them used for a good amount. 21 city and 31 highway. also very sporty.

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Q & A: being sued for hospital bills?

? being sued for hospital bills We had our baby? in May 2010. My husband has trav Aetna insurance? S of their work. We have completed the necessary work a week despu? S that we brought our son home for a? Adirlo. Nobody Us Aetna, time to tell us otherwise, we assume it as? Is a? Adi?. I took him? to the first doc appointment and trav? s of them I discovered? it was not safe. When we called to ask for? L, we were told not ten? An the documentation? No necessary in time and we have to appeal if we really add at this time, or we can wait until the new record, Then need do. We have appealed, and again not ten? To reply to let us know if we won the apelaci? Not something as?. For? Finally, on December 1, as est? We were completing the paperwork to be ready for inscripci? N open in January, my husband called them? to make sure we did everything we are supposed to? It was then that it? Now spoke? said that ten? masters call again, and she go? by us. Finally it was decided? to add to our son at the time, and said back? to until the end of his birth and pay for everything .. Well that was in December I have to admit that because of the crazy things as a death in my family, my? Heartattack and father with my husband to pull the atr? S OTU to work that hospitals have drug their feet on contact and Physicians to let them know you can renew? the insurance bills for all the kids,? qui? n? our fault .. But yesterday, we received a court affidavid saying that it is not? suing the hospital because? his bill not har? to? been paid in any. We Tambi? N try to be put on Medicaid as a temporary insurance until you can get Aetna to? L, but all? was rejected because? I told my husband long before taxes. even though we live in what is despu? s tax and barely able to pay our bills. in reality? when the bills arrived? to hospital because of all the work my husband had to leave because of all the things tr? gicas that happen in our lives that they could not pay the bills b? SICAS we were s? it costs m incoming Physicians and hospital .. cos?, est? n scheduled to appear in court on March 31 .. I want to know? what you gonna do? we have no savings, barely able to make a living, we have a car, but they are up paying in another, we rented our house, we have 2 children .. If he told all insurance and like now? finally, by the new plan will have on our behalf to get us to pay at least we do not have m? s? There s? The very confused and worried .. simply huy? because of all the other crazy things that happen in our lives. and now we est? n suing. ? What? should / can we do? and? qu? can we expect when we go to court? c ‘? a way out of going to court? his bill? m? s of 10,000. all’unit got in? Despu NIC for a week? S birth due to a problem and what he was doing? ? ? Why? as? costoso.tutto us? not a visit m? indicates. I never said that. I told him not ten? A notion that was not in the Pinz? No insurance? has not led to his appointment with the doctor first. were the ones who do not inform us? is a? adi?, as if it is supposed to be. It is not? suing the hospital for their bills whose birth and stay in the NIC team for a week .. and Tambi? n s told me to? our fault that drugs with their feet, haci? ndoles know. However, a lot of life and llev situatuions crazy? out m? s stressful? or less throughout the year you and thus? we focused on all that, the hospital bills. My younger brother died? suddenly just before she gave birth to my son, my? father have? to Heartattack and for all that my mother’s bed? of death I went to spend time with them, to lend a hand, my? with her husband to back to work? been off for a “time, no sick leave? why?? room? to use all their allotted time off for my brothers and services for the birth of our baby?.? cos Best answer:
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Hi everyone,
I will briefly tell you my situation. I met my girlfriend 4 years ago. we moved together after a year. I asked her to marry me in the second year when we moved together. However, since she moved with me, she have never pay bills with me. I was ok with it but she was take care of herself and pay her car insurance and car payment and buy food for her. I am the one who pay her phone bill since I met her as she didn’t have a cell phone and I still pay her cell phone bill until today. I remember I went out of country for 15 days and for some reason the bill of phone go up and cat the by the company. However, she didn’t even go and buy her self a go phone to use temporary. Anyway, today after 4 years together, she get pregnant before 5 month ago and since she get pregnant, she quit her job and I know that hospital told her that she can carry 20 pound tray but she could try to find a another job since she quit the job. She apply for food assistant and cash assistant she declined to get it as she going to school. Right now, I am the one who take care of every thing around home as usual plus I take care of buying food and pay for gas for her car. Basically, I take care of everything now. I don’t pay that much and I have enough to pay for every month. By the way she cant even pay for her car and they will repossess her car and she told me that if the repossess her car, I have to make an arrangement for take her to school and take her back to home. Since I know her, she never cook something for us or stand in the kitchen for at least an hour cook something. She never try to learn how to cook and be good wife. She basically do her homework, watch TV and eat fast food that she just heat it up and eat. My question, all pregnant women quit job or not try to find anther cus they pregnant?? I am really sick of my life with her because she shouldn’t depend on me in the first place, I know part of it me as I let her too depend on me but I was stupid but know I feel it.

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Answer by ♠ Merlin ♠
she was taking you for a ride LONG before she got pregnant
she is pregnant not ill
she shouldnt have given up her job
she shouldnt have done a lot of things but you enabled her lazy ass ways

sorry but you have no one but yourself to blame, she will be a leech till the day you die

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frustrated wife pay all the bills?

the question b ? frustrated wife pay all your bills My husband lost? your job a little “back and now I stop paying all the bills. This? was prolonged? for m? s of 6 months.? l always say? temporary and that be?? they pay me, but I’m tired of hearing Excuses worked from time to time, but when it does get a paycheck money disappears r? quickly, there is always the priority? that come before me to devoluci? n of your friends, buy beer, fix his truck, not dining out. I have this growing anger that I est? using and did not care.? What??, I cancel? your Telephone cellular, television? nv? to sat? lite, HBO, and I’m tempted to cancel Auto insurance in Mobile. I even have hired a lawyer to 0 every 3 months for a DUI, what you have, and I said I would not pay the type m ‘s’.? He says to me cas? for better or for worse, and I support in times diff? ciles. S?, I have no money, but I work too much and you? my hard earned money!? What? do you think,? I have reason? n to cut the ‘gold mine’? Est? n working in and out, small jobs you, sometimes paid and sometimes not. I s? that? l want to have a stable work full time but not as? aterriz? a todav a. But? wait too long to go without these luxuries because we get along? well, we have “Pat and Mike” because the bills? if we do, spend all the money and not pay the bills.? What? ?, I insisted? to open my account in which to deposit my checks. and “irresponsible with money, they both recognize that, Then need we will get there? With the system I pay the bills and all the common household expenses (food, diapers, f? Formula) and the reimbursement of? L. ? Why? when ten? an all-in-com? No, there was never a penny on any of the accounts? why?? all this has happened (in s? same), the m? a and its Best answer:
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